She is angry with you. I agree with that. You know how anger is, it lasts a while, and then it takes too much energy to keep up, so it fades. Of course, if you give her more stuff to get angry about, then she can keep the emotion going. But if you are making the changes and being a nice person to be around, how long can she stay angry?
As I said earlier, she lost her fantasy that she was enjoying. I know it hurts you that she even had the fantasy. But now she is dealing with its loss and she is feeling angry at you for taking it away. Just go on.
