Ruined No More, I like your explanation. It all makes perfect sense when you think about it rationally -- its a little harder to implement when your emotions are involved.
Me: 45 WAW: 45 | M22 | T25 | No Kids Nov 09 W Filed | Dec 09 Separation Mar 17 2010 Divorce Papers Signed | Divorce Hearing Cancelled Moved back home May 2010 PA Confirmed June 2010 | W left Dec 7 2010