told wife today that i wanted a three month seperation, and if things havent changed between us that I would sign the uncontested divorce papers. this pissed wife off beyond any expectation that I had got into a big fight. Figurred this would buy me the four month reconciliation period plus a couple of months she didnt want anything to do with it. In fact she got really pissed, and we got into a big fight. Had to leave the house so that I wouldnt have to listen to anymore insulting comments. she has given me a time line of March 24 when she goes back tom work to sign the papers. Need;ess to say she has done a lot of name calling and seems to be more sure then ever to follow through with this bull sh___ looking for some advice.


me 46
w 42
m 18 years this april
two boys 24 & 14
bomb nov. 9 2009
still fighting to hold on