Grace, I suspect that I won't be as "detached" when he comes back but as long as I make "baby steps" I'm OK with that. I have to first get myself to some normalized state of mind and once I'm there I will start thinking up some new DB strategies and monitor what works and what doesn't. I just have to get my emotions under control first.
I still haven't decided what to do about the "freebies" he is giving away to OW's business. He may actually bring it up himself after that angry email I've sent to him.
glamgirl I agree it's much easier if they are not around. I can't believe I'm actually saying that about the guy I adored being with for 37 years.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
