My H said he was filing as soon as he left in Dec, he has filled out paperwork and brought it here for my review. He was and is serious.
Sadly...I never thought I would see the day or hold those papers in my hand, but I have already and you know what, SO WHAT, they are just papers!
It was not until I brought the changes up for the child support and having it deducted from his paycheck that it has slowed a bit. He was sure in a hurry before and I am sure its nothing more than that. I could see in his eyes the hollowness and the empty vessel behind them, I knew this time it was different and until I learned what MLC was I was spinning not understanding what in the world had just happened to my happy H on Thanksgiving and 4 days later he dropped the bomb just like that.