Aww SAge...I had goose bumps reading your update!

You two just keep hitting them out of the park!!

And how fantastic is it that he credits YOUR reaction for helping HIM to open up....can you say 180????

As for the OW topic.

Interestingly, in my sitch at first it was carte blanche...I could and did ask A LOT about her and the whole A.

Over time however, she's dropped out of the vocabulary...first nail in that coffin (this irritates me, actually) was when our C suggested that I STOP referring to OW by her first name (which happens to be one I rather like ).

So OW she became, or "her"...Just recently I we were talking emotionally and I mentioned her name...CJ FREAKED, I mean veins bulging...she was NOT to be kept alive that way!!!

I don't know...it's odd to me. It's almost like he does NOT want to be reminded of "any of that" at all.

Good? or Bad? ...Little of both, most likely...

Shiny