Unfortunately with the depression and stuff, there is no changing her mind, huh?
I called her the othernight, all I said is hey you were a great wife, if you're up to seeing an old friend and want to have a capt and a diet coke, give me a call, btw way wife, none of this is your fault.
she texted me the next day about picking up D, texted back can't tell me how to drive down the street, your not my parent and not my wife much longer,how bout you just work on you,depression makes you controlling, goodbye.
Talked to shrink today said yeah ayk she's done, he said he threw a lot of things at her and all she said is may be right, but I don't want to be married, we're incompatable and when she goes out to see friends, her mood is actually better,work handed me my butt, no one understands a broken heart and having no control, for the most part I've done the right thing and we'll see what she and her atty offer, I could be the pope right now and that isnt't going to change a thing, so continue to work on myself and see.
Stress and depression are terrible things it sux knowing what and how and can't stop it, she told the shrink she knows i love her and would stand on my head for hours for her, but she's giving up anyway.
So guess I go back to beginning.
I know in my heart I'm the best man for her and no I'm not bitter or angry.
Think from here I'll post to others, that's really the best way to learn and of corse pray for that chance cause man it really hurts, I know for sure beaten and broken isn't going to work, counting on just being the light house and my family being nice that someday she goes what I lost my mind and reward her for good behavior.
Got two texts that weren't ?'s so I didn't reply.
It is it is sinking in, hit me today, I know she's put me in a mlc too, so we're both depressed and feel controlled and short and looking for anything to make us feel better.
Also hit me, that when ur in mlc you want to fix others before yourself, need to keep fixing myself.
