OK Q9, you've protected your interests and made your decision to D.

Now you need to concentrate on yourself. You're going to need to work to get rid of all that anger and resentment. It's not going to be easy but it's going to be for your own good. As stupid as this is going to sound you're going to have to forgive her or else you're going to wind up a bitter, resentful, distrusting SOB who is going to destroy any future relationship.

You're going to have to fix yourself up. I'm sure there were quite a few things that you screwed up on and your WAW has grievances about. Work on those things. Figure out where you went wrong, what you did wrong. Everyone makes mistakes. It's when we learn from them that we become better people.

EDIT: Just saw your posting above while I was posting this.

Last edited by Gnosis; 03/12/10 04:35 AM.

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