WAW in PA-I Moved Out in Error & D has been Filed

[Quart9]

Robx thank you for stopping by my new thread. Your getting way ahead of me though.

The apt was/is in both of our names.

I was advised in my earlier thread by Puppy Dog, Mr Bond, and maybe even you to move back. Do what works and what is unconventional right? Unfortunately I did not take the advice. By the time I had received that advice from you guys I had already been out for a month. I went back and forth on if I was going to move back. Ultimately, I was advised by my L not to do so.

And yes the school I go to is that demanding. Last term I put in 80-140 hours per week. There were times when I stayed up for 2, 3, and 4 days in a row working on homework and going to class. During finals week I almost stayed awake for 5 days in a row. Almost.

I am taking a lite term this term and even with the reduced schedule I am having a hard time focusing on getting my school work done because of this sitch.

I chose to follow Gnosis's rules of thumb:

1) Protect yourself and your future first
2) Then expose to break the affair
3) Then fight for your marriage if you are still so inclined.

School and a career is my future - not a lying, betraying, cheating, immature, woman that doesn't give a damn about anything but her new found selfish desires (nahhh- I'm not bitter).

I filed for the divorce two days ago.