If you think no amount of money or time will take a toll on you and your daughter then you really don't have a clue what you are talking about. Not a damn clue. Considering you don't have a job and have been on unemployment for 2 years I would say money should be a concern for you.

This is not about your daughter. This is about you getting back at your girlfriend for leaving you. Plain and simple.

If you think I pursued I did what I did legally to "get back at my H" you are nuts. I pursued what was available to me to recoup the tens of thousands of dollars he squandered in OUR assets DURING our marriage on his GF. Big f'ing difference.

All you want to do is point out what your ex does wrong but fail to see you are equally if not more guilty.

Until you have gone through the legal system don't even pretend to know what it's like. And don't suggest to anybody it is a way to soothe hurt feelings or start over.