I am a very good detective...hence the tape recorder. I just need to find creative ways to spy without driving myself crazy.
Two suggestions:
1) A GPS-enabled cellphone, on "silent" and hidden in the trunk of his car;
2) A voice-activated recorder, velcro'd up underneath the driver's seat of his car.
You'd know soon enough. I like the GPS phone, because you can set it to send you e-mails if he gets within "X" distance (say, 100 yards) of any predetermined place you want to program into it (say, OW's address, or her place of employment), and you don't have to obsess over it every minute of every day. The voice recorder is a LOT of work, a lot of changing batteries, and your heart is in your throat every night as you have to listen to everything. But VERY effective!
