Let me just say that I'm in a much better place than a lot of people. But I've had 18 months to detach and work on me. Of course, that doesn't mean that I wouldn't rather have this marriage work.
Picked up my S from W's house. He doesn't like staying over there. Wife was drinking when I dropped the kids off; she was asleep when I picked S up; D was sleeping. W gets up and says she has a headache and she looks like crap. S says he'll stay over tomorrow night. W just replies, "you don't have a choice, Dad says you have to."
I fully expect there will be some crisis to prevent me from enjoying my evening. It would be so typical of the manipulative crap that I deal with. I'm hoping not; but I wouldn't be shocked.
