Being trapped in a court system for an average of 12-24 months and spending on the average of 10-15K per spouse is hardly soothing and hardly a way to start a better life.
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He is too consumed by revenge, control and rage to even make a lick of sense.
That may be a fair assessment. And I dont think anything you said was worth being banned over...but thats just me.
And as far as spending money and being tied up in a court system for months and spending lots of $$$...for the person who's being sued it may indeed not be a picnic. But for the person who's seeking retribution for being wronged...no amount of money or length of time is likely to matter.
In my case, if I dont get to keep the same custody situation I have now, which is likely, I have the right to appeal...probably more than once. And I fully intend to do so.
And thanks to the co-parenting seminar, I also learned that if issues between co-parents (things one parent does wrong/improper with the child that the other parent takes issue with) are presented too many times before a judge, the judge will eventually forcibly order co-parenting counseling. I have no doubt that my ex will do the same bang up job she's been doing up til now...so I fully intend to present such issues to a judge as much as it takes.
I dont know how my ex thought all this would go down when she did all this...but if she thought I would just roll over and let her go off into the sunset with OM and D3...she has another thing coming. People need to learn that leaving a relationship and breaking up their family just because they're not happy doesnt get rewarded.
