Got it. If you don't mind I want to post what happened today....

My W and I go get our taxes done. We are newly married and first time home owners. Being a first time home owner we get a tax credit. Part of the agreement we have to own and reside in the home for a period of 3 years or else we have to pay the credit back. We both are on the deed and mortgage. So the tax prepairer gets up and walks away so mu W says "well at least one of us will be there for the nezt 3 years" which is implication she is moving out ect... Completely unnecessary and has stressed me out.

She threw some shots at me too but she did say after a couple of them "I'm just kidding"

I don't know how to read her.

M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10