Grace, thankyou for your response. Okay, I am beginning to understand this NC better. I believe I could make a small change. Maybe I would add a day on the weekend for H to come to house to do things in garage or house. Something like that to begin with. See how that would go. maybe build up to the idea I wrote above to Jack3beans.

I could give him a time frame to be at house. say from 10:00 to 6:00. Something like that. He could have dinner with family. Something along these lines.

Oh I know he won't be suddenly changing his mind on things. Working will be about respecting me, and more conversation. Yes, less tension from him would be good. Thanks! This was helpful.

M\51- H\53
crisis-08
M-30 years
2-D's 25\22
ILYBINILWY - Feb 09
BD - Mar 09
Sep- May 09
NC -Jan 10
H fl'd papers Aug-10