rr22, I'm sure that in the beginning of the separation (and perhaps still) my H has portrayed me in the most negative light. Most everything (or everything) was my fault, and I'm sure he's made that more than clear. "Pessimistic depressive" has been my perception of H during most of our separation.
It's good advice to check with H before I go to dinner with WW. I certainly don't want to have any setbacks since I'm in a pretty good pattern right now. I'll wait until the beginning of the week to e-mail her and let her decide if she still wants to have dinner.