Don't worry this is all typical for the WAS. If they see you walking down the street, they'll cross the street so that you don't accidentally touch them. Crazy thinking.
Rather than letting her get to her, start thinking of her as less you W and more like someone who has a mental illness. It helped me. I started imagining my W like the homeless guy down the corner who just mutters to himself all day.
It made things much more tolerable. Take control to make your life happy again. Your happiness isn't controlled by her actions.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.