How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

Today was another one of those days where my W pushed all my buttons. I know I should believe 0 percent of what she says but she has once again made implications of leaving. She also made some comments with intent to piss me off. I admit I almost lost my cool but I held it together.

There has been hints of positive today but when my own wife pulls away from me like I am a complete stranger when I simply try to pick lint off her shirt makes me feel terrible.

Is this "normal" behavior of a WOW? It is like she has become bi polar sometimes It is good considering the situation and other times she is so cold and distant....based on the history and info I shared up to this point, can this still be saved?