Be mature enough to recognize that life is not always all about you and what feels good for you in the moment. If you are married and have children, you have an obligation and a commitment that far transcends what feels good.
I love ^ this too!! Very true in many areas in life not just marriage.
Yes, its more or less saying "grow up"... but its one of my favourite truth darts because WS's almsot ALWAYS argue from the position of how THEY FEEL
WS : I am sad, I am lost.. I want a divorce AS : Well guess what, your KIDS and WIFE get a vote on that TOO. It's NOT just about how YOU FEEL... a FAMILY is divorcing here, not just YOU.
That sort of thing.. I LOVE throwing that statemetn out, it pretty much completely disarms a WS in argument... I can't think off the top of my head an argument a WS in an affair has made that wasn't about how they felt in some way.. this statement pretty much TRAMPLES all of that in one fell swoop of the pen
