thx for the letter revision Allen. I am now comfortable sending it.

I have a question...How long do I stay in protection phase or what is the plan to end it? I get that protection phase is essentially divorce without the paperwork. So do I just stay here until/if husband moves toward me?

I just don't see him moving toward me. I just see him looking at this as an easy way to get out of the marriage now that I have cut him off...His saying is "no used in crying over spilled milk."


Me: 28
H: 32
1st marriage 4 both
1 1/2 year married
2gether for 9
1S: 6months
1stepson: 2yo