SAge,

I just wanted to pop in here and say that I am GUILTY of 'screen hiding'....my H hates this puter. He knows that during our first recon attempt I was visiting an Infidelity BB that kept me so wound up that there was never any 'peace' in this house. I started on him daily in some whiny, accusatory way about everything...needless to say that helped move him back OUT three months later.
So now...if he comes in the room while I'm on OUR BB here, I quickly close the window and he can tell I'm obviously 'hiding' something. AND as innocent as it is, I'm just afraid that if he sees me in HERE he'll think my current 'moods' etc are a result of that.

So your H could be doing something COMPLETELY innocent but feels he needs the 'privacy' to do it.
T2