[ I'm not a big fan of "the best revenge is living well"...I think if someone wrongs you there should be consequences.
There are consequences to what your ex is doing.
But you're not the person who's going to dish them out.
Got it?
Also, the fact that you're comparing the breakup of your relationship to rape or murder is INSANE.
Not at all, at least, that those two crimes broke the law. You don't have any legal connections to your ex, the woman you did not make your LEGAL wife.
