The contacts at the bottom shoudl NOT be your contact info...
YOu will be getting a NEW phone number anyhow.
You give him a third party to go through if he wants anything... the third party decides if he gets through
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<ring ring>
THIRD PARTY : Hello
HUSBAND : Yes, I need to talk to 4luv
THIRD PARTY : You can leave anything important with me, that's as far as you are getting.
HUSBAND : It's an emergency
THIRD PARTY : Then stop arguing and give me the details
HUSBAND : I would rather tell her myself
THIRD PARTY : This is the system <husband name>, cooperate or I am hanging up.
HUSBAND : OK FINE... I wanted to know where my missing green sock is.. I can't find it in my car anywhere... and I need a new change of underwear
THIRD PARTY HANGS UP
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THAT is how a call works.. YOU don't even get TOLD by your third party there WAS a call... GOT IT?
He very likley will make a lot of calls that aren't important... he will eventually stop playing or your third party can block him for an hour or two...
The thing is... YOU dont get exposed to any of this.. he becomes someone ELSE's problem who he CAN'T manipulate or HURT... got it?
You get a strong third party who can just shut him out and doesn't put up with his bull $hit.
YOu reading his texts at the end of the day when your mom gives you teh phone back is NOT a protection phase...
The sample above is... you are perfectly protected from his calls in the sample above.
