LR...You are right about the friends! Couldn't do this without them!
FM-I have really let time with the kids slip lately and am going to work on that! I CAN help that!
Tom-Yes...it does sound like you need to work on your GALing. It really does help to keep busy! Great job on not making a big deal out what she said about the distance thing! It is great that you were both at the house and got along!
H called my cell while I was working (won't even call the shop now...) and I guess he didn't read the calendar I gave him about the kids being out of school on spring break as he wanted to know what time to pick up S14 from school for the Dr appt. so dangit, I had to call him back! Should have waited and left him a VM after midnight when he was at work! Anyway, told him that kids were out of school so would be home and ready for him at set time. I mentioned that I had hoped to have a break where I could meet them for the appt. Then, I said that I thought they might have to up his dosage as it doesn't seem to be having an effect...mentioned going to p/t conferences and that the report was not good...nothing from H...didn't ask what grades S14 got or anything so I said, we can talk about it some other time, I have to go, my client is here and hung up. NOW, it seems we cannot even talk about the kids? This is the most distant he has been. Maybe she was there or maybe he really just does not give a crap!
Detaching will be pretty dang easy if this keeps up! I swear he seems to be getting worse!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
