YOu get the accountant to call you two and organize it all... YOU dont' need to talk to HIM at ALL
Your mother is RIGHT, if you are just shutting HIM out and reading his texts and listening to phone calls in message form from him.. it IS you playing a game
You are supposed to be living a life WITHOUT his INVOLVEMENT
Right now you are just having HIM live a life without YOUR involvement since he doensn't hear from you
You need to shut HIM out FULLY, that means your mother clears your phone calls and texts and you get a NEW EMAIL ACCOUNT that he does not know about... you turn your old account credentials over to your mom or someone and they change your password
THEY monitor all his emails he sends and they DELETE THEM.
If he sends an important message, THEY send YOU a message in their own words with teh facts you need to know.
You aren't doing a full protection phase here yet... YOU are still exposing yourself to him if you read all his texts and count how many times he calls you each day... you are NOT PROTECTING YORUSELF...
you are allowing him to control you just like mb28.. you are letting the amount of contact you get from him to control YOUR mood when you keep count
STOP COUNTING HIS CALLS AND TEXTS
You shoudl not be able to post counts here at all
You were saying you were sick of reporting about husband's activities.. I want to know how on earth if you are in protection phase how you CAN report his activities? lol
Regarding the b day party
YOu throw a party, your H is NOT helping and he is NOT invited.
If HE wants a party, he can throw one for his son during his visitation...
