My Story...grass is greener (pt 3)

[MrBond]

What you're talking about isn't consequences...it's revenge plain and simple.

You can't even compare a mother with a betrayed spouse. For one thing, the mother will always stick by her child. Second, she has nothing to do with her son's R.

You're totally acting like more of a child than your D. You were hurt and betrayed. GET OVER IT.

We all were. If you spent half the effort getting help for yourself and your D that you've been spending on revenge fantasies against your W, you would've been in a lot happier place.