That is exactly how I think he feels. He's so worried about everyone thinking he's a cheater. And instead tells everyone that he can't go back to me, he couldn't handle being hurt again, and I made him feel so unloved for 4 years. That is what he is crying to everyone else.
Well after 4 months of this, everyone is coming to their own conclusions of why he won't come back. And guess what, they are all leaning towards another women.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10