<<In my case, it is hard for me to imagine a time when I feel no more for Dan than I would for a neighbor or a co-worker. You know, you have a general concern for their well-being but it doesn't affect your daily life and you don't spend much time thinking of them.
And the thing is, I am coming at this from a different angle than a lot of people on this board. My ex and I aren't at each other's throats.>>
Hey BBJ, I am coming at this from the same angle as you. So, i understand how you feel. It makes it difficult and you can fall into the trap of wondering why the heck you got divorced in the first place. Well in my case and yours as well, our spouses were less than honest with us and we have to remember that. I have been lucky enough to meet a wonderful lady who is not perfect but nor am I. A person who is much more in line with my "morals". This does not mean that my X is worse or better, just different. There comes a time when you have to realize that even though we may have had good times together, our WASs have changed. So, just wanted to tell you that I understand how you feel and that it will get better and that you are doing great.
