Thank you Pearl You are right and I do really need to wait. He emailed me awhile back and told me to not worry about the tix..I didn't respond again. I guess I got overly excited. I really was expecting him to be speaking with her. He has his own apartment right now so there is nothing stopping him. I got carried away.
I will ask for his password for the phone but his email account will be very difficult. I don't think that he will be communicating to her through that work account..his bosses know and told him that he couldn't continue his A and if he did, someone would have to leave...so he would have to come up with another way. I don't think he has other email accounts...I can ask..but not sure how I would find out.
I am a very good detective...hence the tape recorder. I just need to find creative ways to spy without driving myself crazy. The days that I taped him...my heart would be in my throat the entire day. I don't want to live like that ever again.
It is difficult to not worry about OW. I blame my husband completely for this...however, the OW texted me when I found out about the affair claiming that it was all a big misunderstanding and wanted to talk to me. I responded to her that I will deal with my H. That has always stuck with me. Also because she is an office who&e...I would love to tell her exactly what I think..but I won't. I wrote a letter to her at one point...but didnt send it. I guess it made me feel better...not as good as punching her between the eyes...OK..I need to settle down I know. MC in 45 minutes...no need to get myself all worked up.