I seen my employee counsler today. She is really good, and gave me some names of some good family therapists. One's that specialize in couples. She recommended a book "Keeping the love you find" by Herville Hendrix. Has anyone read this?
Really having a hard time today. One minute I want to call a lawyer, file, and move out of my house. Just start all over. The next I want to call the OW and give her a piece of my mind. The next I want to call H and yell and scream. I have not done any of these, and I will not be doing any of them. But man I want too.
I'm going to visit my SIL & BIL tonight. They are ones that I haven't really talked to much, but are very supportive of me, and I plan on telling them everything about my sitch. This is my H's oldest sister (I know he has a lot of sisters, 4 to be exact). I've heard through others that she is very upset about her brother not working on the M. So I figured she could be of some help.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10