I'm sorry, maybe I didn't get this before, maynard... she's moving OUT of YOUR house?
Then she made the moving date your birthday just to get under your skin and make sure you're NOT having a good time on your birthday. Tell her the house will be unavailable until you're around to monitor what is being taken from you, things in dispute can be set aside and disputed in court. If she's mad you want to take your birthday off for yourself - let her be mad. It's YOUR good time she's out to ruin.
God, even I'VE played that game - monopolizing EX's time so SOMEONE ELSE isn't. Duh.
Me: 26 Ex: 27 Son: 5
Divorced: 3/2010 Each day is another opportunity to do it right.