Thanks RobX, I am almost there. I do backtrack a little sometimes, but it is a hard habit to break after 22 years.

I keep reminding myself, if he gets mad with me, what is he going to do, D me??? He is doing that already - it cant get worse only better.

It has taken me a long time, but I am learning to not react to him or let him control my emotions.

I read earlier, that I cant use my energy on him. I need to use it on me and my boys. If he is feeling sorry for himself, he can go to her!!!


Me 37 years young!!
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D final 13.05.2010
Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!!
First post: D Day has arrived