Draw back, work on your own growth and well being. You won't be able to control anything in your spouse. Exerting energy on your spouse will only wear you down, and your attitude will suffer.
Very true. Detach and make your life better.
K4D
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...