Her baptism is a big deal to me as far as becoming a full fledged Christian; I am happy about it, but really feel ambivalent given that she is doing it while committing what Christians would consider a horrible sin.
I told her I'd like to attend and she said she would like that, but wasn't sure if I'd be comfortable given "the other people who will be there", namely, the OM.
Her baptism, like your wedding vows, means more to you than to her.
Her ongoing affair reduces this to (begging Monty Python's pardon) "a farcical aquatic ceremony".
After a brief dunking, your wife will be wetter and more outwardly sanctimonious in her delusions.
Go Dark. Work on Pigskin. Leave the moistened bint to discover the error of her own ways or not.
That's what bugs me about it Spinfree. It is total hypocrisy. When she came home saying she finally committed to get baptized, I thought "Whoa! Did somebody FINALLY get to you? Can't wait to see what you suggest for reconciling our marriage!"
It is a complete sacrilege, although her church is a generic non-denominational Christian church, mainly composed of ex-Catholics, so they may have their own views on this. Most people I've met from the church are pretty serious Christians but my W seems to dwell heavily on "God forgives you, move on and start over" messages rather than as Puppy mentioned "You are forgiven, repent and sin no more."
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09
