She thanked me again for paying for dinner and then left.Any thoughts on my questions above?
Didn't you guys reach a financial settlement, doesn't she have a fair chunk of change in her bank account because of you (or is that someone else's thread?), if so, why are you paying for her meal? She's an adult, you can let her pay for your meal, I know it feels uncomfortable to do that but look what it's saying about you, you are still trying to pay for her, prove your value to her - is she doing that with you? When you are always constantly trying to prove your value & worth to someone it always accomplishes the opposite, it's counter-intuitive, it actually says I'm not worth, I have no value. She's a big girl, I'm sure she can handle it.
