Then I would go to the pastor as a man of God and explain to him that you are struggling with something and see if he'd be willing to listen. It's the truth after all.
If your W is seeking Godly intervention or whatever, you can't control it, true. But to satisfy your own spirit, I don't see why you can't ask him the same theological questions you ask here.
Make the emphasis on you and not on your W.
I think her thinking needs to be exposed to the light. Just IMHO.
I can't say this for myself because the guy who tried to get me fired with the OM was a pastor. So I'm more than a little distrustful of them right now.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.