My Story...grass is greener (pt 3)

[MrBond]

"So I told her that today was my time with her and she shouldnt show up at her school."

I feel so sorry for your D. What the hell were you thinking of saying something like this? She's your D's mother. If she wants to see her D at school, let her. All of this is going to come back to you big time.

So what if she tells you that you can't come to your D's graduation or plays or birthday because it's HER day? You have a real all or nothing attitude that doesn't help your D one bit.

You want to believe you're father of the year, then start acting like it. Show her how an ADULT acts. Right now you're acting like a kid who can't get what he wants so he throws a tantrum.

We've all gone through what you did. But there comes a point where we figure out how to compromise to actually start healing. You need to get to that point for the sake of your D and yourself.