Hi CW,

I actually am in a different thread now, this is why I didnt see this. I learned recently to stay within the same thread and not create new ones.. :o(

This is the thread incase you want to catch up on me and my mess :o(
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1954103#Post1954103

I have heard great things about you from HB, she suggested our situations may be the same given we both have kids.

I am doing my best to focus on me and not H.
Taking care of my kids, everything, while he is off playing single.. Argh!
He is filing D.. this is round 2 for us, he came for 14 months and left again, this time actually doing paperwork, wasnt until I stated I wanted Child Support taken out of his check that the hurry for it slowed a bit or maybe its just because he is sick. He left after dropping the bomb in Dec 09 and moved out the 12th of Dec. Guess making sure he brought in his new year without us frown
I look forward to chatting with you and maybe sharing some advice with eachother, sucks to be here, but if we can learn and grow from it. good for us. at least were not insane.

((( ))) hugs to you