During my whole separation experience, I was very attracted to my W, probably because of the whole "want what you can't have" thing. In order to detach and move on I have limited my exposure to my W to the bare minimum, and in the rare cases I'm in her presence I keep it to business, I avoid looking at her, and I don't linger. It has done wonders for me. I am detached from her, and I have moved on, with great benefit. As of now I don't know if I'm attracted to her because I don't even consider it. It's been so long since I've even really looked at her.
