The last time ex took me to court to do the same thing, I hit him hard. Analyzed his financials and exposed the amount of money he was making. I agree with braveheart, the harder you come down on him the more likely he will leave you alone. I did not talk to him during this process and had no eye contact with him in court. I also took my father to the proceedings and he did the same thing. Ex could not understand why everyone was "so mean to him". I have not heard from him since and it is a blessing.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11