Don't we "need" to grow the f up and be responsible enough not to saddle some poor sap with our needy "ne-e-e-e-ds?"
How about if they had wants that needed to be addressed? I can't scratch all my itches.
It's when those wants go untended to that the problems arise.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.