Eric I am going to disagree with you on this. And it is the reason why I am recommending Maynard to file.
W is an addict who is financially unstable. Sometimes you need to break the marriage to protect a part of it. She is going to cost maynard a ton of grief if he is held financially accountable for her actions. And again I am going to repeat this. Her actions.
This is one of the purest forms of tough love. Doing what is right. He has offered unconditional love to her. She has responded by grabbing a new shovel. And she continues to dig. Reality. Maynard needs to protect himself. To grow and heal. To prepare for his future he needs to secure the present.
Her actions speak very loudly.
I have been with maynard since he joined. I offer this advice freely to him. As I know his stitch very well. I have spent many hours of my life helping him.
No offence intended my friend. ( You too newmama )
Just our opinions are different.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!