Brwol makes a good point about acceptance...I have already told my W that I know that the M is over (I did mention that a new one could be formed. I know I'm not suppose to but...) so for me wearing the ring is a sign of the promise I made. I may take it off at some point but who knows. I keep trying to work on me and keep my expecations down but as you can imagine - it is not easy.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans