shite...I knew that troublemaker comment would get me!!! (I was just trying to be all inclusive)
maybe I just miss being bit in the assets!!! I dont' need to pirate the internet with crawling ants anymore
so the original question again was posed as to how maybe the old timers can help instead of hurt the newbies...and what might be going on when you 1st find yourself here, yes? I forgot though, it was so long ago
MLC or WAS...hmmmmmmm to me, anyway, it doesn't really matter so much I thought AJ was in MLC but it turns out he was just a sociopath but I handled it the way I handled it because it was ME I was most trying to save little old me if it saved my marriage I would have been glad (well that was before I found out about the diagnosis) in the end it saved me
it actually made me
i grew
past where I had dreamt myself before
into a realm that only touched the imagined world I knew how to dream (without sounding wishy washy)
I have a better, richer, fuller, more compelling and satisfying life than I knew possible. I feel joy and peace and have a deeper faith, savor life with greater abandon and eagerly ask for more more more
DBing taught me about me my depth my tallness my soul
taught me to grab with both hands laugh with greater adandon sleep sweeter