mb, isn't getting your friends to argue against D major pursuing?
Only if MB's husband perceives it as a trick to get him back, rather than a genuine concern for his, and the marriage's, and the family's well-being.
It does contain some risk, but I'd personally rather err on fighting the affair with everything I have in my arsenal, than on hoping that the "Little Bo-Peep" approach will work.
So yes, I do see it as somewhat controversial, but I don't really think it qualifies as "pursuing" in MWD's sense of the word, Flow. MWD talks about pursuing as ILYs, sending flowers, setting up dates, etc.
