My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

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I have my son so that occupies all my time since he is two and doing house work. Maybe you can start doing something outside. Is there anything you have always wanted to do, but couldn't because of H? Just have fun and explore.

Also I have been with my H for 11 years and I understand it is hard to switch gears. This is all normal and don't feel bad feeling that way. If H thinks it is a "mind" game, let him know you understand, but you don't have anything to ask him so you didn't have a need to call. There is no reason to call especially when he doesn't want to talk (don't tell him that). Just let him have some space and time to realize his mistakes. Use this time to work on you and become stronger. I have definitely learned a lot through this process and realized many things I have done wrong in our relationship and have changed myself. Learning to control my feelings and not say what I am thinking is huge and has helped me a lot.

Just giving you some encouragement. At the beginning it is so hard and you have no clue how to get through each day, but you will and each day you will get stronger and learn more.