Let's see if THIS post survives...last one is in freaking cyberspace!
I read over my first three threads last night (Ok, I skimmed them! Even I'm not that diligent!). Wow. What a difference a year can make (well...an almost year!). I'm behaving differently, h is behaving differently, our R. is completely different...pats on the back to ALL!
1. h called early! I really love it when I hear from him soon after he gets up...don't know why exactly...I guess it just makes me feel as though he's been thinking of me.
2. h left me a newsletter of his days activities (we both had school last night). It's been a while since he's done that so it was super cool to read it!
3. In the newsletter, h gave me special thanks for my support...particularly over the last few days of his illness.
4. h told me last night "I love you so much" and reminded me that we needed to have a "special date" tonight. AWESOME!
5. h listened to me rant yet again about my job. He was really supportive and didn't seem at all stressed by my conversation.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.