Unfortunately, my W has gone for good. She will definately keep looking ahead, and I must do the same for the children and me.
I do think she is slightly unhinged, not because it is an easy excuse for her behaviour, but I have not read any posts from WAW's that have not wanted to communicate with their partners in any way.
She has completely written me out of her life. When I go to pick the children up from her parents house, I honk the car horn, the door opens as if by magic, the door closes. I drop them off, they ring the door bell, the door opens and they enter. I never see her or even an arm closing the door. It seems like she does not even want to look at me.
She said it would be better if I moved away and let her and the children live their lives. I did not gamble, cheat or drink, she dropped the bomb, but she acts like it was me who did it to her.
I just do not understand it.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
