I told my husband the other morning that after we built up lots of positives, that I wanted to talk about where things went wrong and come up with a plan for the future.
He heard me, but immediately launched into a list of positives...we laid down tile in the kitchen...etc.
Then I came back on your thread and read what LL (?) said about looking back while moving forward will trip you up.
Makes sense to me.
There is a Tarot card, I think it's the 3 of cups. It shows a cloaked figure looking forlonly at the cup spilled in front of them, ignoring the 2 cups still standing behind them.
If only the cloaked person would turn around and focus on those 2 cups!
Oy...
In any case, great stuff!
Thank you for your thoughtful posts and thank you to everyone for the responses!