Hey - I'm jumping into your thread - not much going on in mine at the moment. I see a lot of good advice here from a lot of folks. In my sitch, I am out of the house - adjusting to apartment life away from my W and daughters. Weekdays are ok - its busy with work so not spending too much time in aptment alone (I am living with my 23 yr old son). Weekends are the killer - too much time alone to get me depressed. This will be a busy weekend with my D11 volleyball games (2) and an open house back at the house by the realtor. Took a step back in my 180 last Sat - just so happened my W and I were at the house, all three kids were involved elsewhere, and my W decided to take a walk - something we both do when the weather is good. I asked her if she wanted company on her walk, and she suddenly looked sullen and said "I am trying to put distance between you and me - I thought you were doing better with this LS - forget about me - etc." I guess it wasn't completely unexpected - just thought I'd see if she wanted to walk together since we had been getting along really well all that day. I din't fret or comment after that - so I took it in stride. Guess I learned that I will have to site back and wait for a similar offering from her, if that ever comes. Anyway - I guess I am struggling with GAL - but I guess thats true especially after moving out really just weeks ago. I see your H did file the papers - sorry to hear and I do understand your feelings exactly - I really din't think my W would go thru with LS papers - but she did.
Me: 48 W: 47 M: 25 years T: 30 years S24, D21, D11 Bomb dropped: "Not in love with you" 10/09 Separated Feb 2010
